Some Japanese never forgave the foreigners who abandoned the country after the Fukushima reactors explored. I heard of a woman who told her British boyfriend: Don't call me. Ever. I never want to see you again. He was gone only a few days, but he might as well not have come back.
When I called my Japanese teacher to tell her that I was returning - after almost a month waiting in Hong Kong to see what would happen - I asked how she was. I didn't understand her answer. I had to ask her to repeat the words.
'"Unaltered", she translated. 'I'm unaltered. The situation is normal.'